The reason I no longer have sex with women but I am not gay.

From a straight man.

Dear Hamilton Hall:-

I have been reading your Newsletter for some time,

My brothers are both gay.

I have grown up surrounded by my brothers gay friends, both men and women, and while I am straight, I absolutely adore my gay friends.

They know and appreciate I am straight.

I see how their relationships go, easier for gay men than for gay women, - and so much easier to find sex and without all the emotional baggage that all too often goes along with the act of having sex with someone.

Women - They bring such baggage with them and I am now at a point in my life when I am truly sick and tied of the games they play and how we men are expected to wine and dine, adore and pamper, spoil and creep around women in the vague yet usually hopeless task of finding that someone special and maybe finding sex.

My gay friends just go on-line and within an hour or two, have met up with a stranger for sex.

Even on Tinder all I get is messed about - over and over again, and it seems these women expect and demand so much from us men by allowing us to have sex with them. It comes with all sorts of strings attached.

On a date last year with what I thought was a very nice women - half way through dinner in a nice restaurant - she gave me an Invoice.

Yes you read that right - AN INVOICE.

Hair--------- £45 Make up --- £35

New outfit - £145

Baby sitter for the evening - £150

Total---£375

and when I laughed out loud and asked WTF this was for - she said it was the bill for taking her out, for her having to have her hair and make up done, a new outfit and then she said - she wanted to order two more meals in the restaurant as ' take out'' for her kids at home and expected me to pay for that as well.

I immediately laughed and asked her is she was a whore - and as she gave me a strange look, so I went on and asked if she was a hooker, a whore, a prostitute, call it what you like, and her mouth just dropped open as I explained how I only pay whores who I was guaranteed to get my dick wet with and for that kind of money, get it wet in an assortment of holes - and that under the circumstances I repeated - 'ARE YOU A WHORE EXPECTING TO BE PAID .'

Before she could say anything, I excused myself to the toilet but went to the front desk, paid for MY meal and MY drinks and gave a handsome tip to the waitress, and then after returning to the table and telling her she was a complete nut - a looney tunes if she thinks I am paying a single penny towards her Invoice thing, then she was delusional, and I explained that I had paid for my meal and that at least - I was leaving... And I turned and left.

She started shouting and drawing attention to herself and the whole restaurant watched as I left and - thank God - there was a black cab right outside and I hailed it and left the scene - before World War 3 started.

So with dinner for us two, plus dinner for her 2 kids and the Invoice thing, I was looking at her expecting me to give her in excess of - £550.

And this is all about a FIRST DATE which during the meal, and before she gave me the Invoice - was NOT going to end in sex between us.

What The Fuck ?

What world do these women live on. What planet are they from ?

I am 6', good gym bod, not bad dick, hairy chest, have a brilliant job and earn good money but I am NOT about to pay ANYONE to go out with me and ESPECIALLY anyone who expects on a first date for me to pay for dinner for her kids and the baby sitter.

John: I have had it with women, 6 years I have been on my own without a partner, even for sex, and as so many women fuck about, manipulate and want to control us men - I refuse POINT BLANK to buy into the bullshit that women do not need men and how we are superfluous - and see how she couldn't even pay for her own meal after I left considering she screamed she had no money on her at all - and apparently, the restaurant called the police and she explained to the police who were - according to the restaurant the next day after I returned and apologised for whatever went down, all smiles when they heard the story, and I paid for her meal and drinks but nothing else, as she got, nothing else

So she was out of trouble with the police as the restaurant dropped the charges, but - and this is with fingers crossed, she learns not to fuck with men in that manner again as it bit her in the arse big time she may learn not to be such a money grabbing whore. Apologies to genuine whores, I am sure they have better manners than this and at least let you know 'UP FRONT' what the cost is and what is available for the price.

At east with a whore, you know where you stand.

At least with a whore you are guaranteed to get your dick wet.

and at least with a whore, she is probably going to be more fun and laughs and better between the sheets.

So it's been a long time now without any connection to women, and sex, well I just wank and watch porn and am hopeful that one day - one day - my pipe dream might come true and I just wish I fancied men - but the thought just makes me laugh. It would be so much easier and I do envy you gay guys the manner in which you address sex, which is so different to how we as straight people see it... you have it so much easier.

I wish you all a Happy New Year and if ever I change my mind and fancy men, I'll come visit your hotel.

Dennis B.

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