Things you must give up to move forward

I hear it all the time from people, ' I seem to be going nowhere' - OR ' What is my destiny .'

or even ' I feel stuck and don't know how to get unstuck.'

When I was a sex worker in London - for some time I knew it was time to quit and move on to something new - and considering my whole life was in London - and and as I did have a clue what I wanted to do, ONLY I could achieve and facilitate what was to be a MASSIVE LIFE CHANGE - and only I could do that. No use relying on others all the time as that just gives you cause to complain down the line if things do not work out as expected - ' Well they did it' - and not taking responsibility is the cowards way out. By taking responsibility for your own actions, whatever is achieved - whether good or bad, is down to you and you alone.

THAT - my friends, is the mature and grown up way to live your life yet so many - SO MANY - expect others to sort them out and they do nothing to help themselves and then complain when life goes shit up.

If you hate your job, then find a new one.

If in a dead beat relationship, then leave.

If you don't like where you are living, then as you are not bound by chains to the place, find somewhere new.

If you choose to stay put, then make the best of a bad thing and shut up and - make the best of what you have,.

It really is that simple.